Want To Get Your Ex Back? Use These 5 Simple Steps

written by: Geri

Most people who break up will never get back together again...Sad, but true. 

If you´ve been trying to get back with your ex after being apart for a while, you probably already know how difficult saving a relationship can be. 

One of the biggest stumbling blocks is just not knowing what to do. That´s where these 5 simple steps come in. Give them a try - they´re geared to helping you do what it takes to get your ex back again.

Step 1 – Have A Positive Mindset
First things, first. Before you do anything else, focus on having a positive mindset, and try to think clearly. The worst thing you can do is let your emotions drive your actions. Focus on being happy, upbeat and confident. This isn´t always easy to do when you´re riding the emotional roller-coaster that comes along with a break up, but it´s absolutely necessary if you want to get your relationship back on track. 

Step 2 – Live In The Present
Even if you´re successful at repairing your relationship, it´s important you realize it will never be the way it was before. No one can say whether it will be better, or worse. But it´s a pretty sure thing it will be different.

And since you don´t have a crystal ball, the best thing you can do is to focus on living in the present. Enjoy every minute as you experience it. The more you´re able to do that, the happier you will be...and the happier your future will likely become. 

Step 3 – Ditch The Obsession
This step definitely isn´t easy- but it´s important! Nobody likes to be obsessed over (there´s a negative connotation there), and ex boyfriends and spouses are no exception. 

As much as you miss him, long to be near him, hear his voice and run your hands through his hair, you need to resist the urge to always be there. When a relationship has hit the rocks, you both need space - even if you think you don´t. You need time to think about what happened and see things in a more positive light. If you push too much, you may very well wind up pushing him away...forever. And that´s exactly what you don´t want.

Step 4 – Boost Your Appeal
Now before you shake your head at being so superficial, you need to understand that men are of a simple nature – and driven by their hormones. So, take a close look in the mirror and consider giving yourself a bit of a makeover. Get a new haircut, buy some new clothes, try out a new makeup routine.

Not only will this boost your physical appeal, it´ll give your confidence a real boost as well. And here´s the thing: men love confident women – there´s little they find sexier than a woman who respects herself, takes care of herself and knows what she wants. 

Step 5 – Take It Slow
By taking the first four steps to heart, you will have upped the odds in your favor tremendously and be amazed at how well things are going as your relationship begins to mend. At the same time, you may start to go on a bit much about how you´ve changed and how much better your relationship will be, this time around. You may even be tempted to ring up your girlfriends to tell them the good news...

A word of caution...

DON´T rush it! 

Now´s the time to take it slow! You can´t force these things. You have to take it easy and let things follow a natural course. 

After all, wouldn´t it be devastating to lose him – just when he´s finding his way back!  

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