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10 Tips For Getting Your Ex Back – Fast!

10/06/2013 14:04

written by: Megan

When it comes to relationships, not every break up is meant to be. In many cases, you really should try to repair the damage.

But wanting to get your ex back isn´t all there is to it. More importantly, you need to be clear that that´s really what you want to do. Take some time to weigh the pros, the cons...and really think about what it is you want. 

Once you´re clear in your own mind that getting your ex-mate back is what you want – even, need – to do, then these 10 tips can help you do it. 

Step 1 – What Went Wrong?
It really pays to take some time to think about what went wrong in your relationship to begin with. What could you change the second time around? All too often, people get so comfortable in their relationships that they stop really trying. They let themselves go. Ignore the romance. Sometimes all it takes to repair a relationship on the rocks is to start treating the other person special again. You know what we mean – Giving a bit more. Going that extra yard. Trying harder

Step 2 – Have You Told Him How You Feel?
Often we´re so wrapped up in wanting our ex back we neglect to actually tell him that! Chances are, he´s missing you, too. But be careful – don´t rush in!

You need to play hard to get – at least, a little bit. Help him remember why he loved you so much in the beginning. The key is to get him to the point where he misses you and wants you back. Just remember, it´s a fine line you´re walking here, so don´t overdo it. The results could be disastrous. 

Step 3 – Are You Dressing To Impress?
Take a careful look in the mirror. Do you always try to look your best for your ex? Or have you fallen into tossing on any old thing? Remember how much time you used to take primping and preparing when you first fell in love? Consider doing that again. Looking your best doesn´t just help you feel better about yourself, it may have your ex wanting you again as well.

Step 4 – Jealousy Has Its Place
Consider stirring up a bit of jealousy – sometimes that´s all it takes to remind your ex how much you really mean to him. Be careful, though, because jealousy is a two-sided sword, and you don´t want to be the one to get cut.

Step 5 – Have “Words of Love” Become A Thing Of The Past?
Remember how you used to talk to you ex? The love and caring reflected in your words and what you had to say...If you want too reignite that romantic spark, consider talking to him the way you want him to speak to you. Dust off those words of love and make a point of using them again. You´ll be amazed at well they work.

Step 6 – Meet Up - Just To Have Fun
Once you have your emotions under control, ask your ex to join you doing something you both enjoy. Don´t think of it as a date with all the emotional turmoil that that conjures up, instead, see it as an opportunity to just have fun together. Avoid complicating things. This isn´t the time to try and work out your problems. You just want to show him it´s possible for the two of you to have a good time together...then,let things develop naturally from there.  

Step 7 – Let Your Confidence Shine Through
When you´re together, relax. Let your self-confidence shine through. Stop stressing. Don´t worry. There´s nothing more attractive than a self-assured woman who knows what´s best for herself. Men find that unbelievably sexy. There will be time enough to talk out the issues later...

Step 8 – Re-focus Your Attention
You don´t want to ignore your ex but it´s not a good idea to focus all your attention on him, either. You want him to wonder what you´re up to without him. Keep yourself busy. Let him know you have a lot going on. Waiting won´t hurt him any – it may even make him curious, and help make you seem even more attractive. 
Play it cool and you may find him being the one wanting to heat things up again.

Step 9 – Distance Can Be An Effective Tool
Let him know you know he cares about you – just don´t let him think he has any power over you. If he begins to feel you´re getting over him, he may be the one to start doing the chasing. Remember your feelings are just as important as his are. He needs to understand that as well.

Step 10 – Live Your Life!
Life is meant to be lived, not sitting around pining over your ex. So, go out and live it! Have a good time with your friends, start a new hobby, go out and have fun. Don´t try to rub his nose in it.

Just show him you can have as much fun without him as with him

...it may help him remember why he fell in love with you to begin with! 

Be flexible. These 10 tips for getting your ex back certainly aren´t set in stone. Let the true power of your love shine through without overwhelming or restricting your ex. Use your common-sense, trust your gut feelings and, you may find your ex back in your arms faster than you ever dreamed possible. 

Want to learn exactly what you can say and do to get your ex back in your arms again? Click here

 

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